Khaberni - In the name of Allah, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful, peace and blessings be upon our Prophet Muhammad, his family, and his companions.
“Window of Pain” by the teacher and lawyer Musleh Ataallah Al-Nawaiseh, in which he addresses everyone who comes across this message
Peace from me to you, a greeting .. from every truthful thunder and lightning
As we, the family of the deceased, the honorable young ambitious lawyer Mohammed Ahmad Mohammed Al-Nawaiseh, aged (27) springs, are deeply grieved by his departure, as are all Mohammed’s lovers, friends, and all the sons of our dear nation. We felt this through the participation in the condolences from the good-hearted within and outside the nation, whether by attending the condolence house in Mazarel South or Amman, or through phone calls or all means of social media. We can only show all respect and appreciation for sharing our great loss, and may Allah reward you best, and may Allah not afflict you with misfortune concerning a beloved.
However, I, the distinguished, ask for your pardon to point out here that death is a fact and offering condolences is a duty.
The late lawyer Mohammed Al-Nawaiseh, besides being a son of a respected family and tribe, was also a son of the Jordanian Bar Association and was a successful, clean, well-mannered lawyer committed to all clauses of his association’s professional conduct system. Mohammed was graced by divine favor as God chose him and blessed him with a death and a good end envied by all people of religion and morals, and we regard him in the sight of Allah likewise.
Yet, I would like to point out here addressing our esteemed association through the Bar Council, which was one our son, the late Mohammed Al-Nawaiseh, was affiliated with, not to ask anew from the Bar Council to offer condolences because offering condolences is, after all, a conduct...
Mohammed’s association, regrettably, changed his status in the practicing lawyers’ registry to (deceased) before Mohammed was even buried, after he had performed his Umrah in Medina. No official documents regarding the death or for inheritance or other were issued, nor was Mohammed a burden on the Jordanian Bar Association, nor was any official document presented to that effect, nor did the Council issue a decision while the association’s procedures are supposed to be under the constraint of institutional work. The association committed a violation of its customs and the bereaved’s feelings with this regrettable action and despite this procedure and its inappropriateness, it became fully aware of lawyer Mr. Mohammed Al-Nawaiseh’s death. Here, I move to the other side to address the Jordanian Bar Council to add to what was kindly mentioned by elder brother and respectable teacher Rateb Al-Nawaiseh about this aspect, and the intended failure, which exceeded the bounds of feelings and did not consider the grief nor the fellowship right. While the condolence house was open to all honorable Jordanians individually and collectively, our association’s seat remained empty in the midst of the attendance, regretfully, even though the condolence extended over three days—two in Karak and one in Amman, which I believe was sufficient time for the association, its council, and its leader to offer their condolences.
Lawyer Mohammed, may Allah have mercy on him, was an ambitious young professional who contributed with his voice and those of his tribe’s lawyers to the election results that brought you as a council supposed to take into account, in addition to professional matters, social norms which include the duty of condolence upon the death of a lawyer or any of his relatives and impartially towards all affiliates of the Bar Association and not selectively
We, the sons of a respected tribe, have made our mark in this nation we love, and we will continue to serve it. We do not treat this nation as if it is a five-star hotel; we have always been truthful and loyal tribally, professionally, and. ethically to our country, a nation of sky, water, and earth, not a nation of hypocrisy, showiness, and selectivity even in offering condolences. Regarding the claim that the association was busy with exams (Bar Association exams) as stated by the association member (Eyad Al-Batayneh), such words should not be dismissed as insignificant by a respected tribe, nor should such an answer be given by any member of the association defending a shortfall in performing a supposed duty either directly from its leader or any of its council members or any of them in any way of offering condolences, which is out of custom and habit in our beloved country and society. If you were unable to perform the duty, you should not offer an unacceptable excuse as exam paper reviewing is not bound by limitations and one of the eleven council members could have performed the duty and therefore, lawyer Al-Batayneh with this response it would have been better if he had remained silent, regrettably what has been said above, on behalf of my tribe and kin, I repeat, we do not beg for sympathy or participation, and this letter comes since our son was one of the respected members of the general assembly that did not fall short in performing the duty of condolences across the kingdom for their deceased colleague, but this shortfall was confined to our association council.... and here I wonder if, God forbid, a son of any of the council members had been the deceased, would his name have been removed from the register of practicing lawyers before his burial, although I do not wish grief and pain for any of the council members or for any person at all
I address you as an elected council that has gained the trust of the general assembly, not as ordinary individuals, because we did not have a necessary strike, as the Jordanians would say, I address you again as a council, isn’t there a wise man among you who carries the banner of consoling the parents of the deceased in any way? Especially since the deceased came into the world after eighteen years of his parents' marriage and he was the only child to his parents, or did you consider that removing his name from the register of practicing lawyers to (deceased) was the condolence itself..... alas, and how regrettable
Therefore, I address our council, I and all Jordanians with clean feelings and sound judgment, is this fitting or permissible in our society and in our institutions
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