Khaberni - Psychologist Dr. Svetlana Migunova outlines practical steps for a man to become a good father in today’s world, focusing on time, emotional support, and active participation in a child’s life.
Dr. Migunova states that work pressure, financial difficulties, and social pressures can hinder a father's involvement in his child’s life. Yet, becoming a good father is not an unachievable dream, but a realistic goal that requires conscious effort and continuous self-improvement.
Steps to become a good father:
Spend time with the child: Play with them, read books, go for walks, and help with schoolwork.
Daily involvement: Not only on holidays but also in daily activities, attend parent meetings, school events, and sports activities, to understand the child's needs and provide necessary support.
To be a role model: Show respect for others, be honest, diligent at work, and teach the child how to face difficulties, resolve conflicts, and build healthy relationships.
Emotional openness: Express emotions to teach the child how to verbally express theirs, rather than behaviorally.
Setting clear rules and boundaries: To make the child feel secure and aware of what is expected of them.
Support the child’s interests and develop their talents: Whether in sports, arts, or science, and help them develop their skills.
Listening to the child: One of the most important parenting skills, by listening without interrupting or judging, understanding their perspective, asking questions, and showing interest in their experiences.
Seeking help when needed: Consulting other parents or a psychologist if necessary.
Unconditional love: Show love for the child as they are, not based on their achievements, to boost their self-confidence and lead a happy life.
Overall, for a man to become a good father in our era, he needs to continuously learn and develop himself. The effort that a father puts into raising his children will return many folds when he sees them grow up and become happy individuals.
